brotherhood_of_LAN - 4:02 pm on Aug 19, 2011 (gmt 0)
Have patience. Free help is worth the wait surely!
You should find out which queries are causing your pages to load slowly. Try using the EXPLAIN [dev.mysql.com] syntax to evaluate how MySQL is parsing your query and if it is using indexes where it should be.
There are a number of optimizations you can use to tune the database server, but most importantly, make sure your queries are tip-top first.