wilderness - 5:41 pm on Apr 30, 2012 (gmt 0)

can I ask what's wrong with colocation

neither co-location or server farms (shared hosting, VPN's and other similar website hosting), offer valid visitors, rather they provide a web host and/or its server harvesting pages.

is there more we could add to it that would of persuaded you to give us a chance

Not from me.
I don't allow all of Europe into my sites. Except by special request/custom from widget contacts/references.

I'm sure somebody else will come along and provide and explanation more beneficial to you.