astupidname - 8:29 am on Aug 11, 2010 (gmt 0)
thumbPath: "http://www.mysite.com/player splash.png",
Just wondering, is the thumbPath supposed to have a '/' between 'player' and 'splash.png' ?
I do not see any block elements on your page with an id of "playerLite". Since you are using the 'dynamic' method of swfobject to embed the playerLite.swf file, swfobject will look for an element with that id and replace it with the player. So try adding <div id="playerLite"></div> somewhere's in the page.
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