lorenzinho2 - 3:25 pm on Oct 19, 2007 (gmt 0) The only answer is to bring your site to the users.
Clark, I couldn't disagree with you more. The best way to build up your destination site is to build out your distributed presence - through things like widgets, Facebook apps, apis, toolbars, etc. With SEO getting more commoditized and the top sites absorbing a greater share of the web's sessions, everybody else is losing ground.
The only answer is to bring your site to the users.