Seb7 - 12:40 am on Sep 17, 2011 (gmt 0)

I recently had the same issue, mails getting bounced a lot, and ended up learning about SPF, then applying a similar rule to my dns which I must admit has helped greatly.

SPF has been around for sometime, but it does appear it is starting to be used quite heavily now.

I still have a problem with aol though, they seem quite happy in blocking too much. I have quiet a few important emails lost in the aol black hole, even though I'm not on any public blacklists.