The guy doesn't want it for some inexplicable reason (and here I am with decent flash skills).
I just had a brain storm however and figured out a way to do this though with a single <embed> and about 5 lines of java code. My java really sucks, so it took me a while to figure this out, but it works!*.
It seems you have to have an actual audio file already embeded on the page to get this code to work.
*I'm on a different system now, I just tried to copy this from memory,so forgive me for any bugs.