During this last 3-4 months i add ~near 20-30mb content in my database (php-mysql site) and after this start my problems. [just now db size is ~near 60mb]
every time google visit my site, my apache was overloaded and as result site "in down". at that time i was on VPS hosting (256mb ram).
at first i didn't understand what's the problem, (didn't see any connection between google's visits and server overloading).
it's continued 3 month, after i decide to move my host to other hoster and upgrade my hosting account to 512mb. (it was 30-40 days ago)
btw, server moving wasn't clear and as result site was in down 2-3 days/
as result of this:
1. i loss google's traffic, if before google have 15-25k indexed pages from my site, now there are 500-700 pages.
2. all my KW-s aren't work
3. if 3-5 months ago google make 2-3gb during his site visits, now maximum 300-340mb
during this last month google visit my site 5-7 times and 4 times of this he make server overloading.
i don't know , what do?
1. wrote Google and tell that his visits make site overloading?
now when he don't do deep crawls?
The "overloading" form states sending the form would lead to Google coming less to my site.
That's not what I want at all!
i think that after this he will visit less , in which i'm not interested.
2. upgrade my server or move to dedicated with minimum 1 gb ram?
hmm ... now , durign this 40 days my business was worst (i mean site incoming), so it's a little terrible to pay for dedicated server and don't be sure, that we can earn enough.
the problem is, that when my problems starts, at first i think that it may be google's ban or penalty (for duplicate content).
still now i don't sure that the only problem is in server overloading.
pls, help me,
suggest, what's the best solution in this case?