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I am SO bored
silly little rant
rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 8:25 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

this work-from-home affiliate lifestyle is killing me! It was nice and dandy for the first 2-3 months, but now it's driving me crazy to the point I'm taking on spillover projects from my former company just so I can have some semblance of structure in my day!

I have a lot of time to go workout, and practice guitar and take some fun classes at the local community college, but geez, I only have so much initiative through the day to find things to keep me busy.

I'm not the most gregarious guy either (ok, pretty introverted) so during the day the few friends I have all work or have SO's and I'm not one to just go out and hit the bars every night... - i.e I'm becoming a hermit!... I'm actually even calling my folks to have someone to talk to!...

what to do?...should I get a talking parrot or paint a face on a volleyball?

 

Teshka

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Msg#: 3956 posted 8:34 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

Write a novel? Take a trip? ;)

I ended up doing a hunt on Craigslist last fall to find other people who were off during work hours on weekdays, so I've got a couple people to play with. Maybe something worth trying.

diamondgrl

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Msg#: 3956 posted 9:10 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

Volunteer to force you meet people. Or take a part-time job.

gopi

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Msg#: 3956 posted 9:18 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

Every 3 months or so ,we see a post like this , dont we :) ...

As diamondgrl said do volunteer or partime work or better expand you business so that you can rent an office and hire employees!

TrustNo1

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Msg#: 3956 posted 9:29 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

If i didn't have a SO, i would be travelling. That's the great thing about affiliate marketing, you can do it anywhere. Get a laptop, jump in your car and take off. Lots of the world to see. And you never know you might meet a SO along the way and then can be kept busy in other ways :)

tsinoy

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Msg#: 3956 posted 9:44 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

teach other people what you have learned..?

rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 10:11 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

Hah, thanks y'alls for the replies.

As it were, necessity is the mother of invention:

Just yesterday I was browsing craigslist for people to hang out with.

No SO, so I am planning on a major trip (6 months plus) to Europe parts-unknown-wherever-I-end-up come end of March, with the intention of staying in Amsterdam for a few months, get a part time job and see where it goes. There ain't much to plan though - pack up a suitcase with clothes, grab my laptop and my digital camera and go...

Been coming here a lot and posting :)

I suppose I could be doing more sites - but that can get a bit boring - programming 24 hrs non stop day in day out...

MovingOnUp

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Msg#: 3956 posted 10:28 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

I go to lunch with my former coworkers about once every other year or so. It helps me remember why I like working for myself so much.

Some other things to do in your spare time:

1. Travel.
2. Learn. Read books. Work through OCW classes at MIT.
3. Spend time here on WW.
4. Build more sites.
5. Add new features to your existing sites.
6. Check your stats.
7. Go to the movies at 1pm. There's usually only about five people there.

Zygoot

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Msg#: 3956 posted 10:38 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

teach other people what you have learned..?

But the more people get involved in affiliate marketing, the more competition and likely also a slower growth or even decrease of earnings for all of us..

rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 10:41 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

One can gauge how "busy" I am by the frequency and speed of how often I reply to this thread :)...

Done the movie thing too - one day I watched 3 movies in a row... what a waste of time, I was this close to walk out from "Alone in the Dark", but I didn't want to leave the theatre all empty ;)

rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 11:01 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

But the more people get involved in affiliate marketing, the more competition and likely also a slower growth or even decrease of earnings for all of us..

Zygoot: you realize that we're all here on WebmasterWorld learning and teaching one another, right?:)

I've learned quite a lot from hanging out here - in fact, you could say I am the 'new competition' you speak of. A year or so ago when I was fresh off school my thought was 'hey I can create a textbook price comparison engine' (because in college that's one of the main things that are constantly an issue of contention) - the thought of actually trying to sell something else didn't even cross my mind. Then I came here and the rest is history. My 'flagship' college site now only holds an honorific title as the first site I started - but the moneymaker(s) are elsewhere...

and all because of you wonderful people here in WebmasterWorld - you've given me a way out of the rat race and changed my life! (now if only I knew what to do with it...)

teenwolf

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Msg#: 3956 posted 11:14 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

I'm actually even calling my folks to have someone to talk to!...

I'm just glad I'm not the only one doing this! :)

Just remember how much better this is than the alternative. Just keep repeating this to yourself until the phase ends ...

Zygoot

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Msg#: 3956 posted 11:15 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

Yes I realise it - but I didn't mean that it's wrong to help and teach other people. In fact while helping others you can learn things which could help you to improve your own business. And it also gives you a nice feeling that you've helped someone.

But I just wanted to warn that in case everybody and his dog starts doing affiliate marketing there will be almost no profit anymore in doing it.

disgust

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Msg#: 3956 posted 11:24 pm on Feb 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

it isn't hard to learn what it is you need to do to make money. it's a lot harder to do actually be able to pull it off, and intensely more difficult to do well at it.

MovingOnUp

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Msg#: 3956 posted 2:07 am on Feb 19, 2005 (gmt 0)

Fishing in the middle of the day during the middle of the week...

rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 5:34 am on Feb 19, 2005 (gmt 0)

an ex-coworker just invited me to go ski with her friends tomorrow . Although I'm bored out of my mind, I said no, because (she's the only girl, everyone else is a guy,damn) ;) and if I'm gonna go to the slopes I'd rather do it over the weekday, especially given this weekend they're gonna be jam packed...

I sure know this is still better than the alternative of working a 'real' job, but we humans are never quite satisfied, are we?:) ... now this is my current situation and I have to learn how to deal with it...

MovingOnUp

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Msg#: 3956 posted 10:08 am on Feb 19, 2005 (gmt 0)

Two of my other favorite things to do while others are working...

Morning Naps

and

Afternoon Naps

gopi

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Msg#: 3956 posted 5:23 pm on Feb 19, 2005 (gmt 0)

>> Morning Naps

Ha Ha ,I get up only at around 11 AM , which i can never think of when i went to a dayjob :)

Jane_Doe

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Msg#: 3956 posted 6:48 pm on Feb 19, 2005 (gmt 0)

You might want to try joining a hobby group or take up a sport. Before we had kids we made most of our friends from places like the Sierra Club and outdoor adventures groups that did activities like canoeing, camping and whitewater rafting.

qwer

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Msg#: 3956 posted 9:31 pm on Feb 19, 2005 (gmt 0)

rfung,
I only want to inform you that there could be some problems which you should know on your trip to Europe (and which should also be known by all of us) :

Google AdSense: you should be especially cautious where (geographically) you check your stats, because if somebody clicks several times on your ads and is located near you, you could have some problems with Google (you know, for any reason).

Credit card payment: Sometimes, when you want to pay for something using your credit card and you are located in another country, the payment can be denied. (just check the FAQ sectionof Clickbank "why has my credit card been denied). This happened to me last summer while travelling through Europe for 2 months (I travelled to some neighbouring countries). Well, perhaps with a USA credit card it is a bit different, I don't know.

Taxes: You SHOULD NOT become resident of another country, as you will not be allowed to be self-employed, but you will be required to pay taxes; but, if you are not a resident, you can not open a bank account to cash your checks (in nearly all countries)!

Checks: there are some countries, where you can't recieve your checks (usually 3rd world countries or countries with high spam rate).

P.S.: If you plan to stay in Schengen (the Netherlands included) for more then 3 months on a 6 month term, you will be required to get a visa (with all the hassle which this will involve). Also note, that if you stay for 3 months, you can only stay as a tourist (you can't legally work).

I don't want to stop you from doing your trip, actually I am planning to do the same when my checks have a little more digits.

My tip: get somebody in the USA to check your stats and to use your credit card when needed. I don't know what you can do in order to cash your checks (I guess, you have to sign them in order to cash them).

If you have more doubts, send me a private message.

P.S2.: Excuse me for my poor English.

rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 2:42 am on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

qwer:

thanks for the heads up. I think most of those issues should be no issues at all:

As far as the whole working thing - well, I have a European Community passport, so technically I'm an European citizen - that should make things easier I think as far as being able to stay for longer periods in whichever country I end up in? No visas to worry about that's for sure. I do know that for longer periods of time you have to do some extra paperwork though...

obviously my main working gig will be doing websites - which isn't taxable work in the host country (nor do they really need to know). My checks are being re-rerouted to my folks who can simply deposit it in my bank account.

I've been to the UK on a month long trip back in November - I used my credit cards just fine. ATM's work too, but unfortunately I have to deal with the lousy conversion rate to the dollar going on right now.

I'm taking a very simplistic view of this trip - "wherever the chips may fall" - it's not like I'm going to a developing country where resources might be hard to come by. But if I'm totally overlooking something, let me know :)

rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 4:05 am on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

On the topic of boredom:

anyone use AIM? my screenname is zooks76 ...

seeking full time affiliates earning about the same as I do and 'bored' as well, no "please help me" messages from newbies please :) ultra-pros feel free to message me "hey I'd like to help you"... If you're a really hot single female in affiliate marketing, even better. ;)

oh if this is against the TOS..then just delete the post.

tsinoy

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Msg#: 3956 posted 4:46 am on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

dude, I want to have your problem.. hahaha...

I decided to quit my job of almost 8 years... well not to go full time with affiliate marketing.. but to start a software company and at the same put more time on my affiliate business... so most likely I won't run into the boredom issue... but then again.. it would be nice to have a good stream of income and have this issue... :D

hey maybe after our successful launch.. maybe you can work with me on launching our own affiliate program... hehe...

universetoday

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Msg#: 3956 posted 7:27 am on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

Have kids and you will never ever be bored again.

europeforvisitors



 
Msg#: 3956 posted 7:43 am on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

Get a dog. The walks will provide structure for your life, and you can make a point of working in between them. :-)

rfung

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Msg#: 3956 posted 8:56 am on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

a job, kids and a dog! that almost looks like a regular 9-5 lifestyle!... :-D

jhood

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Msg#: 3956 posted 3:37 pm on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

Rent some office space and hire an assistant. This will burn up all your extra cash (and then some) and will force you to go into the office to keep the assistant motivated. Soon you will have a whole new batch of problems and annoyances to deal with and will yearn for those peaceful days at the movies. (If you have also acquired a dog prior to getting the office and assistant, it will become neurotic when you begin spending long days at the office). Eventually, you will fire the assistant, close the office, give the dog away and move your operation back to your bedroom.

I have done this several times (also adding the spouses/child units) and seem doomed to repeat the cycle.

incrediBILL

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Msg#: 3956 posted 7:08 pm on Feb 20, 2005 (gmt 0)

OK, learn from the master....

Get on POGO and play 4-player card games, canasta, spades, hearts, etc.

That way you can meet new people without leaving your chair!

... and you can even drink in a "social setting" so nobody can accuse you of drinking alone :)

kwongwo

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Msg#: 3956 posted 7:24 am on Feb 21, 2005 (gmt 0)

hi,rfung
i will quit my job next month,,,
could you pls share more about your life at home

aico

incrediBILL

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Msg#: 3956 posted 9:37 am on Feb 21, 2005 (gmt 0)

kwongwo,

I quit my job almost 6 years ago....

If you dont persevere to get a LOT more work done everyday, you should keep the day job.

Even if you work for yourself it's still a JOB, if you don't work at it you go hungry.

There is no free lunch, except the one AdSense buys me daily, with 2 beers :)

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